Describe the last difficult “goodbye” you said.

When I had to throw away little memories of people who are no longer in my life, I realised the true meaning of goodbye. Goodbyes are always not for people but also for memories, things, hopes etc etc. I have always been independent and I thought that I need no one to complete me. Then few people entered my life and taught me that you can be independent and still have people in your life but unfortunately not for long. Soon they started using me, making me believe that I am wrong and so I started to believe I’m a mean person. It took me a lot of time to figure out what was happening. I thought about everything and then I realised it’s not me, it is them. I started talking less to those people, I made sure that they don’t harm me mentally. I started saying goodbye to those memories that made me happy, that made my day. I knew something wrong was happening and I was happy I got away from it pretty soon. They came like wind pleasant and soothing and went away like an unexpected storm destroying every little thing I had. I couldn’t have made it this long if I had stopped thinking that I’m independent. I did not give up on myself and so I’m here writing this with joy that I was able to overcome the situation and even though I miss them but I made sure I remember the bad memories more than the good memories to keep myself on track.


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